Monthly Archives: May 2011

Amanda + Josh {married 4.16.11}

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What a special afternoon it was for Amanda and Josh as they exchanged vows and celebrated their marriage at the historic Rose Hill Mansion in Bluffton, SC. The ceremony, directed by Donna Jones of Creative Weddings, was picturesque! It took place on the front steps of the mansion, which echoes the look of a crisp white cathedral. After the ceremony, guests gathered inside for an elegant afternoon reception. A beautiful array of hand-passed and stationed hors d’oeuvres were prepared by Christine’s Catering while the joyous sounds of the piano played in the background by David Duckworth. The chance of rain was set for 40% on this day and while we often saw dark clouds in the distance, directly above remained a clear blue sky with sunshine that beamed its rays straight down on the mansion throughout their afternoon wedding. It was a picture-perfect day for a picture-perfect couple and as you’ll see throughout the images captured by Photography by Anne, love protrudes from Amanda and Josh in every way possible!

To see the entire gallery, click here
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Tips for Tipping Your Vendors and Service Providers

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Last week one of my clients asked about proper etiquette on tipping her vendors and service providers because she realizes the hard work and efforts they contribute to make her wedding day a success and wants them to be compensated fairly for it. While customs and amounts vary across the world, tipping is necessary as it is intended to supplement the low base salaries earned by many hard workers.

Photo by Steven Torres (via Brides.com)

Here are a few rules of thumb:

  • Vendors that provide a product (i.e. cake baker, caterer, florist) typically do not receive a tip, but vendors that provide a service (i.e. musician, limo drivers, bartenders) should be tipped.
  • Remember, tips are intended for workers who receive lower base salaries so vendors who are self-employed or the owner of a business do not generally receive a tip unless certain circumstances compel you to.
  • Anyone that has gone above and beyond their call of duty, no matter if they’re providing a product or service should be acknowledged with a spontaneous tip.

TIPPING AMOUNTS

  • Hair & Makeup – 15% to 20% of the total bill
  • Ceremony Musicians – $25 to $50 per musician
  • Officiant – $50 if married by a judge or clerk; clergy member do not accept tips so instead, make a donation to their house of worship (typically $100)
  • Photographers/Videographers – $100 to $200 if they are part of a large agency, but not the owner
  • Servers – 15% of the total pretax food bill
  • Bartenders – 10% to 15% of the total pretax portion of the bar bill. *Be sure to request that the bartender does not set out a tip jar for guests to feel obligated to tip
  • Reception Musicians or DJ – $25 to $50 per person
  • Limousine Driver – 15% to 20% of the total bill. *You can request their gratuity be added on to the bill so you have it out of the way.
  • Valet Parking – $1 to $2 per car given to the supervisor at the beginning of the night and split among the staff. *Display a sign at the valet station that says gratuities have been taken care of. Instruct the valet attendants to refuse any tips offered by guests.
  • Restroom/Coat Attendants – $1 to $2 per guests
  • Delivery People – $5 to $20 per driver depending on the amount of heavy lifting, on-site setup and pick up that come with producing your wedding.
You’ll want to set aside an extra 15% of your budget for unexpected tipping. Many hotels and clubs include a service charge for their staff so before signing any vendor contracts, ask whether or not gratuity is included in the total cost. 
Some service providers should be tipped before the event, which your wedding coordinator can take care of for you. They will also ensure your service providers do not set out a tip jar of any kind as to make your guests feel obligated to tip.
When preparing your tip envelopes, be sure to include a handwritten note of thanks and seal each envelope securely. If a tip is spontaneous and unexpected, the best way to disburse is to wait until the next day so you can prepare a handwritten note of thanks to include. Be sure to point out what they did that made you extra appreciative.

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Amanda + Josh {married 4.16.11}

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What a special afternoon it was for Amanda and Josh as they exchanged vows and celebrated their marriage at the historic Rose Hill Mansion in Bluffton, SC. The ceremony, directed by Donna Jones of Creative Weddings, was picturesque! It took place on the front steps of the mansion, which echoes the look of a crisp white cathedral. After the ceremony, guests gathered inside for an elegant afternoon reception. A beautiful array of hand-passed and stationed hors d’oeuvres were prepared by Christine’s Catering while the joyous sounds of the piano played in the background by David Duckworth. The chance of rain was set for 40% on this day and while we often saw dark clouds in the distance, directly above remained a clear blue sky with sunshine that beamed its rays straight down on the mansion throughout their afternoon wedding. It was a picture-perfect day for a picture-perfect couple and as you’ll see throughout the images captured by Photography by Anne, love protrudes from Amanda and Josh in every way possible!

To see the entire gallery, click here
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Embellished Events
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Phone: (843) 757-7762
Email: Info@EmbellishedWeddings.com

Tips for Tipping Your Vendors and Service Providers

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Last week one of my clients asked about proper etiquette on tipping her vendors and service providers because she realizes the hard work and efforts they contribute to make her wedding day a success and wants them to be compensated fairly for it. While customs and amounts vary across the world, tipping is necessary as it is intended to supplement the low base salaries earned by many hard workers.

Photo by Steven Torres (via Brides.com)

Here are a few rules of thumb:

  • Vendors that provide a product (i.e. cake baker, caterer, florist) typically do not receive a tip, but vendors that provide a service (i.e. musician, limo drivers, bartenders) should be tipped.
  • Remember, tips are intended for workers who receive lower base salaries so vendors who are self-employed or the owner of a business do not generally receive a tip unless certain circumstances compel you to.
  • Anyone that has gone above and beyond their call of duty, no matter if they’re providing a product or service should be acknowledged with a spontaneous tip.

TIPPING AMOUNTS

  • Hair & Makeup – 15% to 20% of the total bill
  • Ceremony Musicians – $25 to $50 per musician
  • Officiant – $50 if married by a judge or clerk; clergy member do not accept tips so instead, make a donation to their house of worship (typically $100)
  • Photographers/Videographers – $100 to $200 if they are part of a large agency, but not the owner
  • Servers – 15% of the total pretax food bill
  • Bartenders – 10% to 15% of the total pretax portion of the bar bill. *Be sure to request that the bartender does not set out a tip jar for guests to feel obligated to tip
  • Reception Musicians or DJ – $25 to $50 per person
  • Limousine Driver – 15% to 20% of the total bill. *You can request their gratuity be added on to the bill so you have it out of the way.
  • Valet Parking – $1 to $2 per car given to the supervisor at the beginning of the night and split among the staff. *Display a sign at the valet station that says gratuities have been taken care of. Instruct the valet attendants to refuse any tips offered by guests.
  • Restroom/Coat Attendants – $1 to $2 per guests
  • Delivery People – $5 to $20 per driver depending on the amount of heavy lifting, on-site setup and pick up that come with producing your wedding.
You’ll want to set aside an extra 15% of your budget for unexpected tipping. Many hotels and clubs include a service charge for their staff so before signing any vendor contracts, ask whether or not gratuity is included in the total cost. 
Some service providers should be tipped before the event, which your wedding coordinator can take care of for you. They will also ensure your service providers do not set out a tip jar of any kind as to make your guests feel obligated to tip.
When preparing your tip envelopes, be sure to include a handwritten note of thanks and seal each envelope securely. If a tip is spontaneous and unexpected, the best way to disburse is to wait until the next day so you can prepare a handwritten note of thanks to include. Be sure to point out what they did that made you extra appreciative.

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Embellished Events
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Phone: (843) 757-7762
Email: Info@EmbellishedWeddings.com

Choosing the Style of Your Wedding

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DECIDING THE FORMALITY
In choosing the style of your wedding, many considerations must be addressed. The first decision is to decide how formal or informal your wedding will be. Formality can be determined by considering the location of the ceremony and reception, number of guests, size of the wedding party and time of day. There are three types of weddings: Formal, Informal and Semiformal. Below are some guidelines to help you determine which is most suitable for your affair:

Image by Photography by Anne




Formal Weddings

  • Ceremony - Typically take place in a house of worship or in a large home
  • Wedding Party Size - The wedding party usually consists of 8-20 attendants
  • Wedding Party Attire - The bridesmaids wear floor-length dresses and the groom and his groomsmen wear suits or tuxedos
  • Guest Attire - Female guests wear street-length dresses for a daytime wedding and floor-length or cocktail dresses for evening weddings. Male guests wear either suits and ties for a daytime wedding or tuxedos for an evening wedding. “White Tie” is the most formal wedding
  • Reception Location - The reception usually involves a sit-down dinner, elaborate decorations, music and dancing in an elegant location
Semiformal Weddings
  • Ceremony - Typically take place in a house of worship, a hotel, a club, a home or a garden
  • Wedding Party Size - The wedding party usually consists of 4-12 attendants
  • Wedding Party Attire - The bride and her attendants wear long, ballerina or tea-length dresses. The groom and his attendants wear a formal suit for daytime or evening weddings.
  • Guest Attire - Female guests wear street-length tailored or semi0dressy dresses for daytime weddings and cocktail dresses for evening weddings. Men wear dark suits for either daytime or evening weddings.
  • Reception Location - The reception can involve a plated meal or stationed buffet and music provided by a small band or DJ.

Informal Weddings

  • Ceremony - Can take place in a house of worship, a home or a garden and may be presided over by a notary or justice of the peace.
  • Wedding Party Size - The wedding party usually consists of 2-6 attendants
  • Wedding Party Attire - The bride and her attendants usually wear simple white or pastel floor-length gowns or ballerina, tea-length or street-length dresses. The groom and his attendants wear sports coats and slacks or suits.
  • Guest Attire - Female guests wear something appropriate for the location. Men wear sport jackets and slacks.
  • Reception Location - The reception can take place in a home or at a restaurant. It may even involve a brunch or lunch int he mid-morning or an early afternoon wedding with hand-passed hors d’oeuvres or a simple buffet. Music may be provided by a single musician or even a jazz duo. Music could even be played in the background from a playlist on your iPod.  

DECIDING ON A COLOR SCHEME

Next, you’ll want to decide on a color scheme for your wedding! Many brides let this decision be one of the hardest to settle on and with so many options out there, it’s no wonder!! Here are some things to consider to help you narrow down your colors:

Image by Verve Studio
  • Time of Year – Think about the colors you associate with each season (i.e. pastels for spring, bright pops of color in summer and darker shades for fall and winter)
  • Seasonal Flowers – Research which flowers are in season during the time of year your wedding will take place. Which ones are your favorites? What colors do they come in? Let this steer you in a certain direction.
  • Bridesmaids Dresses – Consider the skin tone of your bridesmaids and the colors that will look good on them. If you have many types of skin tones, you may just opt for a neutral color and bring in your color scheme with their jewelry, shoes and flowers.
  • Location of the Wedding – Look closely at the surroundings of where your wedding will take place. Are there certain colors that you notice in the decor that you like and might be able to complement? Build off of what you have around you if you can.
  • Personal Style – Consider your clothing, accessories, household decor, even your favorite catalogues to see what colors you’re naturally drawn to.
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